Why there are no universal rules!

There is lot of self help material out there in form of text, audio, video and like written by all kinds of people including bloggers, buisnessmen, professors etc. talking about the same timeless things in different ways, such as

1. Remaining healthy
2. Working hard
3. Networking with people smarter than yourself like that

But do self help actually work. 

It would be plain foolish to say that it doesn't because there are actually some good books I have come across recently like Principles by Ray dalio and Atomic habits by James clear. But if critically examined than you find out that timeless things on happiness and health have always been there with us. They are now just repackaged and sold to us with some another good to ear story of overcoming adversity.

There are as many ways to get ahead in life as there are people ahead of you. Just don't waste time on finding a perfect strategy, move now and iterate as you learn. This way you will find you own path.

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